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kyukidojen
05-20-2008, 12:53 AM
Our Chloe, whom some of you are familiar with, was put to sleep this evening. For those who don't know, she spent the first 15.5 years of her life being beaten, starved, and generally mistreated. She came to us in the summer of 2006, and we were able to give her almost two good years. She's been battling lymphoma for quite some time now. The tumors in her abdomen were enormous, and in the last week, the sweet girl we knew (okay, not always sweet - occasionally downright obnoxious) left us. She was replaced by a depressed, aggressive, slightly psychotic cat in a broken body.

We took her in tonight to have her put to sleep. She was so frantic that they were unable to place a catheter. So my husband held her while they did a peritoneal injection of a sedative. Once she relaxed, my husband held her in his arms, I placed my face against hers, and they found a vein for her final kindness. Tears flowed freely, and the vet's tech had to leave the room.

I miss our girl... and I found myself so thankful for the fact that we now have a 2.5 year old and a 9 month old. We'll probably adopt one of the three kittens we are fostering right now... our house is empty, somehow, without Chloe in it. I know it was her time, but it's still hard. She was such a beautiful cat - and not just on the outside. I wish that the last morning I woke up with her in the bed with me (over a week ago - it used to be every night, but she has been sleeping with the water bowl) could be forever burned in my memory. I know it will, in some ways - but I don't want the details to fade.

She got her very own order of fries on the way to her appointment today - and her life ended with one of her favorite things: a car ride. It got her so happy that I was contemplating turning the truck around and taking her back home. Then she went back to my husband's lap and I saw the huge wet spot on my shirt. It brought me back to reality - to the fact that she had lost ALL control of her bladder. To the fact that she was no longer enjoying her life.

She is the first pet my husband and I have buried together at our new home. We bought the house I grew up with. Chloe's spot is next to my dog - the one who came to our home when I was in third grade and was part of our lives for 13 years.

katiem
05-20-2008, 12:57 AM
I'm sorry to hear about Chloe's passing. Though I'd never met her in person I can tell by her pictures and your stories that she was a wonderful cat. Hugs from me and the furries.

Julia423
05-20-2008, 03:16 AM
My condolences are sent to you. Chloe was lucky to finally find you so that her final years - and final days - could be happy, peaceful ones.

Those tears are going to pop-up at the most unusual moments...I know. Sweet memories.

nanamouse
05-20-2008, 04:53 AM
Hugs and tears from here, I'm sorry you didn't have her longer, but you made up for her earlier life in the end.

dlaura
05-20-2008, 08:35 AM
I am so sorry for your loss, but how wonderful that you were able to make her last years here on earth loving and comfortable. God Bless you & hubby for giving her a gentle end no matter how much it hurt you - you put Chloe first and that is your last gift to her.

Ltlpistol
05-20-2008, 10:22 AM
Chloe was a beautiful girl. Be happy in your memories of her, and know our prayers and condolences are with you.

Macawpower58
05-20-2008, 12:27 PM
I'm sorry for her loss. She sounds like she had some very good final years. Poor kitty, to have such a rough life before you. You made her see what life is all about, and I'm sure her spirit will stay with you forever.

lbee
05-20-2008, 05:54 PM
I'm so sorry about the passing of your precious Chloe. She was lucky to have found such a loving home with you. May your fond memories of her help you through this most difficult time. Take care. lbee