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rstowe
10-12-2006, 08:16 AM
Friday, Oct 13th is the 1 year anniversary of us having to put our loved Rottie, Jacob down. For those of you who haven't heard this story here is what happened.

First, the backstory. I was in the Air Force and 1 month after we got married we moved to England (Jan 2000). My wife was going to be at home all day every day so we decided to get a dog. We found a shelter nearby and went. There was this huge purebred German Rottie just sitting in his kennel with the biggest eyes. We learned he was 1 year old and had been beaten and abused for his entire life. He had been locked in a shed with no windows or water for barking. One owner even broke his nose. He had been in and out of the shelter 5 times in his first year of life. No one knew how to handle him correctly, he was around 80 pounds. The kennel was either going to put him down or send him to work on a farm. I grew up with big dogs (all my dogs had been well over 100 pounds) and my wife had trained Handi-dogs; so the kennel decided we would be his last chance. After a week or so of interviews and home visits the kennel decided we would be a perfect fit. The first 6 months was tough. He was aggressive, especially if you showed any aggression towards him. My wife worked with him non-stop every day, giving him nothing but love and training. After a couple of months, we started to notice a change. He became the biggest baby! He would climb in your lap, lean up against you (anyone who has a dog over 100 pounds know this isn't fun) and sleep with us in our bed. He went from a dog who had no chance to our sweet baby Boo (Boo was his nickname) for the next 5 years, then it all happened.

On Sunday, Oct 9th 2005 we noticed Jacob wasn't eating, he was drinking a lot of water and he had an accident in the house (which he had never done in the 6 years we owned him). We figured he just wasn't feeling well and let it go at that. He didn't eat the next day either and was still drinking a lot of water. On Tuesday night, Oct 11th while we were eating dinner, we noticed he was shaking really bad. We took him to the emergency vet. She took blood and x-rays. His white blood cell count was really high and the x-rays didn't show much. The emergency vet said to take him to his normal vet the next day. She thought he might have been bitten by a tick or had a kidney infection (due to the increased thirst and high white blood cell count).

On Wednesday, Oct 12th we took him to his regular vet. She took more blood etc. They had him stay for the day and they gave him IV fluids and nourishment (he hadn't eaten since the previous Saturday). We took him home that night while we waited on the blood work to come back.

On Thursday, Oct 13th I took him back to the vet first thing in the morning to get more IVs and to wait for the blood work to come back. At around 9:30 that morning, the vet called back with the blood work results. She said his white blood cell count was even higher than it was on Tuesday and we should take him to the internal medicine vet to get an ultrasound done. My wife and I hurried to pick him up and get him to internal medicine.

The internal medicine vet, did an ultrasound. Our biggest fears were about to be realized. There was a tumor on his stomach the size of an orange. His breathing was shallow and ragged and he still hadn't eaten since the previous Saturday. The vet called a surgeon to see if they could get him in. She also explained what his life would be like after surgery and on chemo. She said he would probably only live for another year or so and because of the chemo, he would probably have to be carried outside and upstairs. The vet let us know that the surgeon would be able to get him in but he had bad news. Due to his condition (not breathing very well and very weak from not eating), he only gave him less than 50% chance to survive the surgery to remove the tumor let alone make it through the night. My wife and I spent the next couple of hours or so trying to make a decision.

At around 1:30 that afternoon, we had made the decision. We didn't want him to suffer anymore. We didn't want him to have to be carried everywhere (he weighed close to 150 pounds so that would be really uncomfortable for him). We told the vet our decision. She led us into a room that had several sofas and a nice area rug. They brought Jacob in. We laid on the floor with him for close to 2 hours saying goodbye. Around 3:15, we told the vet we were ready. The vet gave him the "shot", we said our final goodbye, gave him a kiss and walked out the door.

That was the toughest day of our life. We knew we made the right decision because we did it with what was best for him not for us; anything else would have been selfish on our part.

It is still tough; the pain has never really gone away. We have a memorial to him in our entertainment center, and next spring we're going to plant a memorial garden to him in our backyard.

Jacob, our sweet baby Boo - Mommy and Daddy miss you very much. We think about you everyday. You were our life and we cherish the life we had together even though it was only for 5 years.

Please click the link below to see his pictures and for a poem that has helped us a lot.

Cancer is a nasty thing and hopefully one day we'll be able to cure it not only in humans but in our beloved pets.

Thank you for listening to me tell the story of our beloved baby Boo.

Lehi
10-12-2006, 08:52 AM
Oh goodness. I'm at work and I have tears running down my cheeks. Thanks for sharing your story. I am relatively new to this forum and hadn't heard it. Good for you for having the knowledge and patience to give Jacob a happy life after the torture he had been initially put through and good for you for also knowing when it was time to let him go. You were blessings to each other. He was a handome fellow.

rstowe
10-12-2006, 09:00 AM
Thank you for the kind words. My wife did the majority of the work to turn him around when we first got him.

It is unknown how long he had the tumor. Us and the vet determined that he was probably just tired of fighting. He never had any of the usual symptoms of cancer, it just came on all of a sudden.

He was a fighter. He was very happy and enjoyed just getting love or playing.

dlaura
10-12-2006, 01:27 PM
Oh gosh I am at work too and have tears in my eyes too. Well at least I am alone in my office. Rich I am so very sorry to hear about Boo's loss, but have to tell you how happy I am that he spent the main part of his life with you and your wife. Thank God you found each other. How hard that awful day must have been for you both. Those of us who are reading this need to give our pets an extra hug and treat tonight. So sad. God Bless you both.

rstowe
10-12-2006, 01:31 PM
Thanks for the kind words Diane. It was a hard day but it was what we had to do not what we wanted to do. Of course we would have loved for him to live forever; but we are very glad he was happy and loved and taken care of for 5 out of his 6 years.

NewfieGrl
10-12-2006, 07:08 PM
My sympathies are with you and your wife. Your story brought tears to my eyes. It really hit home. Last year when I was babysitting for 2 of my ex husbands newfies, one of them stopped eating. She was vomiting and had diarreah. She was one that he adopted from a family who was giving her up. She had a huge tumor in her stomach. She was only 5 years old. He had opted to have the surgery, but six weeks later the same stuff started happening again. The tumor grew right back. It was heartbreaking.
I truly believe you made the right decision, especially after experiencing the other side of it. I hope you realize that you gave him a wonderful home, and a wonderful life, while he was with you! You gave him a wonderful life!
Michele
owned by 2 Newfies, a cocker spaniel and 3 cats.

rstowe
10-13-2006, 07:55 AM
Thank you Newfie.

rstowe
10-13-2006, 09:22 AM
Today has been tough. When I woke up this morning, I took some time looking at Jacob's memorial. Cried some and then went to work. Haven't been able to stop thinking about him today.

Thanks to everyone for their kind words over the last couple of days.

Rich

dlaura
10-13-2006, 09:24 AM
Just wanted to let you know Rich that you & your wife are in my thoughts and prayers today.

rstowe
10-13-2006, 09:27 AM
Thanks Diane. It is appreciated.

It sucks that I have to be at work because I think it is going to be harder on my wife today. He was our baby and because she works from home, she spent 24/7 with him for 5 years.

Lehi
10-13-2006, 09:42 AM
Today has been tough. When I woke up this morning, I took some time looking at Jacob's memorial. Cried some and then went to work. Haven't been able to stop thinking about him today.

Thanks to everyone for their kind words over the last couple of days.

Rich

Try not to be so sad today. Jacob had a wonderful 5 years because of you and your wife. He wouldn't have had those years at all without you. Take comfort in knowing that he is romping around in a better place in no pain and that he will be waiting or you.

rstowe
10-13-2006, 09:44 AM
Thanks Lehi.

I know he is waiting at the Rainbow Bridge with the other pets I have lost.

Evey
10-13-2006, 07:10 PM
Don't cry because he is gone, smile because he was here.

rstowe
10-14-2006, 09:46 AM
Well said Evey. Thank you.

rstowe
10-11-2007, 10:40 PM
This Saturday, October 13th will be 2 years since Jacob passed. He is on my and my wife's mind everyday but especially this week.

Ltlpistol
10-11-2007, 11:25 PM
So sorry to hear. I, too have had to put a beloved pet down. You and your wife are in my thoughts this evening. God Bless.

rstowe
10-12-2007, 06:33 AM
Thank you pistol.

PatchO'Pits
10-12-2007, 07:05 AM
HUGS.

I know I felt awful all over again on Sept 19th which is when I lost Sock-M to cancer.

But I know they are both safe and pain free now and we will meet up again someday


Hang in there

dlaura
10-12-2007, 09:31 AM
Rich it is good to hear from you, and I am sorry it is due to this anniversary. My thoughts will be with you & your wife and I hope you can take peace in knowing that he is pain free and waiting for you both at the Rainbow Bridge.
{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}

rstowe
10-12-2007, 04:51 PM
Thank you Diane and Therese. Sorry for your anniversary as well Therese. I can't imagine how tough that was.

Julia423
10-13-2007, 12:21 AM
Thank you for posting again so that I was able to read Boo's story. I have a dog, Max, who is living with a pancratic tumor. Isn't it amazing just how deeply these precious animals touch our lives? My best wishes are with you and your family.

dlaura
10-13-2007, 05:28 PM
Just wanted to say I am thinking of you & your wife right now and wishing you peace.

rstowe
10-14-2007, 11:36 AM
Thank you to everyone. Yesterday was hard but we got through it.

dlaura
10-14-2007, 11:44 AM
I'm sure it was Rich. It will most likely always be a hard day, but with time maybe it will lessen a bit. We are always here for you & your wife. PL hasn't seemed quite the same without your daily visits. We miss you.

Chari15
10-14-2007, 11:36 PM
I am so sorry for your loss Rstowe. But I too find it wonderful that you were able to give him a great life after all the pain and suffering he had been through. Your wife and you are wonderful people and we need more like you in the world today.

You have my deepest sympathies and condolences on your loss. Your story was very inspiring...thank you.

Angelfire
10-15-2007, 12:46 PM
Hi Rich...I was just going through the same thing yesterday as it marked the day I put my baby boy Zar down. We also had to put down our other Rottie and couple of weeks ago. Its good to see you back as you helped me a lot last year with Zar.

rstowe
10-20-2007, 08:54 AM
Angelfire - I remember about Zar and I'm sorry about your other Rottie.

Angelfire
10-22-2007, 08:01 PM
thank you...I was very hard since it was less then a year since we put down Zar. We can't do without a Rottin one so we did adopt another 4 yr old female. Beau was so sad after Juno passed I thought he too would just give up but since Mica has come into our family he is acting like a pup again. We have had her for 2 weeks now and she has settled right in. Hope to see you on more!!!

xpalaboyx
10-22-2007, 10:00 PM
how sad.... im speechless...

daniellecaro
10-23-2007, 12:11 AM
awee... your story made me cry. Something about animals and thier owners, its a bond that can't be described. When I lost Wishbone and Chachi, I never got over it. I have 5 dogs, and many people tell me that I replaced them. I didn't. I understand how sad it is. I'm so sorry.

rstowe
11-10-2007, 08:41 AM
Thank you again everyone for all the nice words.