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Godiva
01-30-2006, 05:25 PM
Hi all. I was looking for a site like PetLovers because I knew that there would be people on here who would understand what I'm going through. I am an animal lover; my husband is not.

A stray wandered up to our home less than a year ago. I looked for the owner by putting an ad in the paper and on the internet. No one claimed this gentle, loving dog; so I decided to keep him. We named him Jake. Jake loved to race our cars up to the road. (We live in the country on a dirt lane back from the road.) He was racing my husbands truck one day when my husband ran over Jakes leg. My husband didn't realize it at the time. I noticed it later that afternoon. Jake was limping and there were open wounds. I took him to the vet and amazingly, there were no broken bones. The vet informed me that I did not have a mutt but an Australian Blue Heeler. Jake had to have antibiotics to clear up the wound as it was getting infected. I also had him tested for heartworm, put on heartworm pills, etc. The bill was NOT cheap.

This past Thursday, around 5:00 pm, I came home from picking my kids up from school and running errands only to find that Jake did not give me the usual wag of his stubby tail or his excited run around the yard. When I examined him, he had dried blood on this side. I cleaned him up but couldn't find the wound. (Earlier in the day he and my Boston Terrier (Yoda) confronted this HUGE white dog that ended up on our property. I thought it was from a fight.) Jake did not look comfortable at all. I told my husband to check the dog out when he got home but he didn't look at him until Saturday afternoon. I begged my husband to let me take Jake to the ER Vet; but he said that we couldn't afford it. When my husband finally came out on Saturday he told me it looked like someone had shot our dog. That made sense, because I couldn't see how that other dog could injure Jake so badly.
I had almost convinced my hubby to take the dog to the vet when a few minutes later Jake died. I was sitting next to him petting him and telling him I loved him. (I'm so glad I decided to go outside and spend time sitting with him.) Since Thursday, he was walking around slowly and not laying down much. I"m assuming it wasn't comfortable for him. So when he came up and lay on the blanket I put out, I knew he was critical. My husband just happened to walk away to talk to the neighbor and a few minutes later Jake passed. I don't ever want to go through that experience again.

As to Jake being shot, all I can figure is that when I went to pick the kids up and had Yoda put in our laundry room in the house, that Jake decided to wander over the fields next door. I'm wondering which neighbor shot him and I would like to talk to this neighbor. Down here in South Texas, when you live in the country, it is a widely known thing that if a "stray" wanders onto your land you can shoot it. I would only shoot a dog if it threatened my children in any way. I just CAN'T STAND people who are gun happy. I don't mind having guns; but shooting at ANY animal that enters your property is wrong. I knew a guy who would shoot any animal that came on his property. One day he shot a dog and then when he went to look at the dog, it had a collar with tags. How sad.

I dearly loved this dog; Jake. He was a gentle, loyal, devoted, and loving dog. I have NEVER been SO attached to an animal. (Sorry Yoda, but it's true.) I'll really miss him.

Sorry this is so long; but I know there are others here who understand what I am feeling. (People I know think I'm crazy..."it's JUST a dog...c'mon")

Thanks for letting me vent.

Photo of Jake:
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Fuzzy Kitten
01-30-2006, 08:11 PM
Oh I'm really sorry...I know how hard it can be to lose a pet, I lost one myself (she didn't die, she ran away, but it's all still sad). Your story was very sad and very touching and yes, I HATE it when ppl act like that. My parents used to have dogs and they believe their neighbor poisoned both of them just because he wasn't a dog lover. How stupid and sad.

Again I'm very sorry for your loss and I hope you'll recover soon:o

PatchO'Pits
01-30-2006, 08:17 PM
So sorry for your loss

phillydogs
01-30-2006, 10:39 PM
I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
Some people just can't grasp the concept that our pets are not "just dogs" or "just animals" they are members of the family. At least Jake knew that you knew that and loved him!
God bless

Squawksx3
01-30-2006, 10:48 PM
I'm also so so sorry for your loss. :(

reeskujo
01-30-2006, 11:33 PM
I'm so sorry that you had to suffer losing your beloved fur baby.It's never east and it's true people don't realize that to most of us our pets are like our children.Look at all the people that refused to evacute when Katrina hit because they wouldn't leave their pets.Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

JustJo
01-31-2006, 12:16 PM
I am very sorry for your loss of Jake. Know that most of us here have lost a loved ones and understand what it is like to go through what you are. RIP Jake.

dlaura
01-31-2006, 12:42 PM
I am so sorry for your loss.

mom2bichons
01-31-2006, 12:43 PM
I am so sorry to hear about your loss.

Godiva
01-31-2006, 05:30 PM
Thank you all so much for your kind words. I really appreciate that as well as the poems and sayings for comfort.

I have another dog (Yoda the BT) and would someday like to own another Blue Heeler; so I will frequent these boards.

Shirley

Jerica
02-01-2006, 12:04 AM
I'm sorry for your loss. I recently adopted a red heeler for my grandparents, strangly enough his name is also Jake. He is a sweetie too. I think its in the Heeler blood. It is always hard to loose a pet, I recently had to put down my bunny. I hope you will find a way to ease your pain. Just rememeber he is in a better place now.

Pepsidoodle
02-01-2006, 10:37 AM
Deeply sorry for you losing Jake. I hope whoever shot him has guilt for the rest of their sorry life.

JHTROCK
02-01-2006, 05:24 PM
Godiva, I Must First Say, That I Am Sure You Are Sincere In Your Love For Your Dog, I Am Sorry That He Was Killed By An Idiot With A Gun However, I Read In Your Post That This Dog Was Allowed To Suffer And Die For Three Days With Gunshot, He Received No Help, And Nothing For His Pain, I Understand This Was Your Husbands Fault, But You Should Never Let Anyone Tell You That You Cannot Do What You Feel In Your Heart Is The Right Thing To Do. I Have Read This 4 Or 5 Times, Trying To Decide What I Should Say, This Is Not Intended To Make You Feel Guilty, But If You Cannot Reach An Agreement With Your Husband In The Care Of Your Animals, I Would Not Recommend That You Get Another. It Seems To Me That The Least That Could Have Been Done, Would Have Been To Humanely Put This Dog Down. As I Said This Is Not Intended To Bash You, As I Believe You Sincerely Loved This Dog And Were In A Situation You Could Not Control. Good Luck!